




A big thank you to Suzanne at Sky Blue Sea who invited me in a recent post to list thirty things that make me happy. Initially I thought this would be difficult, but it turns out this is just my TOP thirty, and that the list is pretty much endless (am happier than I thought I was!!)
So here it is, in no particular order, as they say :
1. My three babies (ages 15, 19 and 20) - their achievements, their gorgeous faces, their weird conversation, their beautiful personalities, their hugs.
2. My long-suffering Hubby - who has asked me every morning of every day for 25 years if I would like a cup of tea in bed, and every morning of every day for 25 years I have replied 'Yes Please'. But still he needs to ask!
3. Lying on our trampoline on a Summer's day listening to the wind rustling through the huge willow tree above me.
4. Having things to look forward to and get excited about. Going to Latitude Festival this weekend - yey! Have perused the Festival make-up range in Top Shop but will stop short of gluing feathers to my face; maybe next time.
5. Making Pots - the whole absorbing, creative, thrilling process from start to finish of making ceramics - opening a kiln is better than opening Christmas presents. Sooooo exciting to see how its all turned out.
6. Standing on top of a mountain in the Yorkshire Dales watching the shadows of clouds roll over the valley below.
7. Waterfalls after lots of rain - fresh and bright and fizzing with energy.
8. Old photos like the one above taken in 1963 of a certain person in her party frock on her fourth birthday - OK you don't really have to do the maths!
9. Proustian moments - things that suddenly bring back childhood memories - smelling my roses the other night I remembered how as kids we used to make 'scent' by mixing rose petals and water (always a disgusting mush, but we loved it).
10. Connecting with people in person, in books or in blogdom, in a way that makes me inwardly shout 'Yes, I feel that way too!'. Just realising that most people out there are really decent and nice.
11. Taking the extra effort to get to know the quiet, diffident people - they are always worth it.
12. Reaping the rewards of being brave and going way out of my comfort zone.
13. Girly nights with my close friends.
14. Small islands - Aran, Mull, Lindisfarne, Skye - love being surrounded by sea.
15. Country and Eastern - my favourite shop of all time - in Norwich, in an old skating rink, its massive and a feast for the senses. 16. Those rare moments being alone in the house when the older two are away at uni, the youngest at school and the Hub at work and its just me and the silence.
17. Watching the wind ripple over fields of corn - like someone shaking a silken sheet.
18. Poetry, language, odd lines from songs, sounds of words - favourite is 'serendipity' because it sounds nice and is nice, but am also fond of 'wistful'.
19. New places - just taking in places I've never seen before.
20. Being told by very discerning teenagers that I look 'good' - sometimes even 'cool'. As some of you will already know, teenagers are always right. Am aiming for 'Awesome' next. Yeah whatever.
21. Making my famous roast chicken dinner with my award-winning gravy (sorry SkyBlueSea's hubby!) and watching them all dig in big style.
22. Getting texts all the time from my older two whilst they are away and knowing that they are thinking of me as I am of them - and learning new teenage/text words like 'meh'.
23. Leaning against the Aga whilst the rain lashes down outside.
24. Collecting stones as reminders of special places I have been. Also hanging stones up in the garden. Just because.
25. Charity shops, junk shops, antique shops - obviously.
26. The lilt of a soft Irish accent spoken by someone with a twinkle in their eye that makes me think they must really be a Leprechaun.
27. Galleries that are user-friendly, down to earth and welcoming - not posh, pretentious and scary.
28. The recent long summer evenings, sitting outside in a teashirt at midnight watching moths dance around a candle flame and not minding one bit that I am being eaten alive by mozzies.
29. 'Thin Places' - mystical places where two worlds seem to meet. 30. Changing rooms that have those corner mirrors that make you look incredibly slim.
I've so enjoyed doing this and sharing it with you. Let me know if you do a list - I'd love to read it.